Friday, October 5, 2007

No Regrets

He's worth it.

I know you will disagree with me on this one. I guess we have our own opinion. But never think that what you have done or who you have done it with is not worthy. Live without regrets I always say. We never know if we will still be here tomorrow. Don't get me wrong. I'm not a happy go lucky person. Actually, I'm more of a loner. I prefer to stay indoors with my fave book than go out and hang out. But do believe what I say about love. I've been there one too many times.

I will be a hypocrite if I say that I never regretted anything. I did. Back when I was young and stupid. But when love comes. True love. Even though it only lasted for several months, there should never be any regret. Yes even tears, money, and time we spent with people should never be regretted. Because through them, we become strong. Through them we learn.


I read a profile about a guy saying that he is laughing at himself. He said he just realized that the person who broked his heart and whom he spent months of depression and tears before being able to move on is not worth it at all. I ponder about what he said for a couple of minutes before I was able to react. Do we need to regret what happened because it never worked out? Should we say that a person who broke our hearts is not worthy of our tears? These questions flashed through my mind as I read his writing for the nth time. Then I asked myself "Will I regret the tears and time I will be spending alone if my relationship with my Bebhe won't work out for the best?" "Will I be angry or mad at my Bebhe for leaving me or letting me go?"

I'm an open minded person and I am not a fortune teller. I don't know what wil happen in the near future. We can still be together or we have went our separate ways. Things change. Time changes everything. Even people. And I don't know what I will do or can do if my relationship with my Bebhe don't work out. But I do know one thing, there will be no regrets. For everytime I spent with my Bebhe is worth it. Every tears I have shed and will shed. Every single breath that I take with him. Even the fights between us.

Every single second.

Every single smile.

More than worthy of tears.



It's worth dying for.

14 comments:

THE GRIPEN said...

parang bagay dito yung lyrics ng "what matters most" hehe! baduy ko talaga...=)

XanFactor said...

actually... i don't think we regret spedning time with the EX... but the time we grieve for their lost...

hmmm...

the secret to it... not that i practice it oh so rightously--i am but human, with a heart that bleeds... is to think that loving is not owning... and therefore, if the one you love is happy in someone else's arms, you should be happy about it... because, well, he is happy...


You won't regret anything, you shouldn't... just think... maybe you are destinied to fall madly inlove with him... but he was destined to break your heart... the point is... at least, natikman mo siya... hahahahahahaha!

but seriously, you were given a chance to be with him... that alone is something you should be happy and thankful about... not something to regret...


i don't know... Love, never an exact science... the beauty of it...

:)

TL said...

Kapatid pag inlove ang isang tao baduy talaga hahaha

Lexan even the time that we grieve for our or their lost should not be regretted. Because its the time that we heal ourselves from the pain we just endured. No regrets! :)

Mugen said...

To be honest, hindi ako makarelate. Marahil dahil siguro ito sa aking pagiging cynical sa relationship.

hxero said...

I think that one should not regret of ever loving someone even if not knowing if your relationship will last forever or not. No one really knows anyway. What's important is that you are able to give love and be loved in return. You love, you hurt, you learn then moved on.

mrs.j said...

indeed everythings worth it.. but...

dont forget din to breath.. may sarili ka ding dapat intindihin...

nasabi ko na yan dati... pero ng matapos ang lahat... natanung ko sarili ko if its still worth it...

iba iba tayo,oo nga... pero di naman masama kung hihinga ka din paminsan minsan!

Anonymous said...

helo!! di2 na ko magcomment abwt ur post "no regret" kac tumirik yung comp ko sa haus tapos di2 sa office nakablock. hehehe. anyways ako with my past rela... parang nagregret ako.. pareho kc ng cause ung pakigbreak ko sa kanila... mga two-timer!!! dats y right nw ayoko na magkabf... buti pa nung single ako walang problema.. always happy.. im afraid to be hurt again.. ang sakit!!!

-Ice-
http://www.icecodey.blogspot.com/

Anonymous said...

what a lovely entry, hayyy ang sarap mainlove
==kaikai

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